Oddball relay question

[Mltoys]

Hi, on our 2009 aveo i read lots of posts on here about replacing the starter relay due to sporatic starting.
problem is i went to auto zone and they ordered it for me since it was not in store.
the one in my car is smaller than what is called out for.

Do i have a demon aveo thats different ? Heres a pic of my fusebox and one with the grey relay from store.
even rock auto shows the grey. Help please.

[xintersecty]

Then take it back and get them order the right part. That picture will help them a lot.

[petrified.rabbit]

yours looks like mine.. not your replacement the one in the box.

I have had the same issue you are trying to address, and I continue to have it as the car sits in the shop not getting moved around a lot. The best fix I have found is a strong battery. That stupid relay won't click if my battery dropped below 11.5 volts while cranking. Which my battery drains as I am not driving it. I have found most "typical" mechanics say a battery is good if it stays above 10 volts while cranking, that is not the case I have seen with my aveo. Even with the boost pack on the car if the batter residual charge is under 11.5 while cranking, it won't start.